Hey Anon, you did great!
In this situation, as in many in life, Judo rules apply: Go with the punch, don’t push against it.
This was a win, you just need to recognize it as that.- you proved yourself that you have lots of courage
- you were not a creep when talking to a stranger
- you dodged a bullet with that woman.
- you tried something new. (might not have worked out at the first try, but can’t really expect to be that lucky)
keep it up, don’t lose heart, you’ll find your match.
For real, I can probably count on my hands the number of times I tried cold approaches like that in my life. Especially with a pack of girls. Super duper ballsy of Anon. Much respect.
Great comment, cold approaching in any situation can be intimidating but at the end of the day the worst that can happen is they say “no”. And then you can go home and get high or drunk or whatever and not care. Each rejection hurts a little less each time.
I mean, better solution is to go hang with your friends and commiserate. Which, imo, is always something dating advice seems to avoid talking about. Dating is hard. Having a solid social support system to pick you back up again is crucial.
That’s when you go “Oh Okay, I can see why your single” and walk away like a boss
Now we know why she’s single
I assumed they laughed at her because she actually IS that desperate but in denial about it.
The amount of people that assume laughter is directed at them in a scenario like this instead of the friend or even just a reaction to something uncomfortable is too high.
Dodged a bullet.
Worst she can do is say “no”
Remember boys: greentext is made up and didn’t happen.
You can’t be the victim and a Victor, you made your choice.
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Are you saying you wanted to date that? That’s self selection at its finest.
anon dodges a bullet. cries about it
Yeah but you’re not getting skinnier bitch
If she wasn’t desperate she wouldn’t be at a bar
…?
Are you high? Lots of people go to bars all the time for all sorts of reasons
Name one besides getting drunk
To spend time with friends and maybe meet new people in a social, fun, and well decorated environment.
I went to a bar, stalked a woman and had to bite my tongue to avoid saying m’lady when I asked her out. I can’t imagine why she said no.
