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Cake day: January 16th, 2024

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  • Democracy is broken.

    It worked when everybody had the same information and we worked from the same facts (and only people who looked and peed like me could vote…but that’s besides the point).

    But when the majority is uninformed or misinformed, the whole thing breaks down.

    We are amidst an actual information war, where objective facts are in the crosshairs, and our wonderful media institutions have determined that only sharing part of the facts and filling in the gaps with strongly-worded and thinly-veiled opinions yields the most clicks/views/whatever, and in return, more money.

    Society is fucked at this point.


  • Yeah but police follow the money until it gets too hard to pull people in (or someone on the force is protecting them).

    So usually they just take your basic B&Es and corner street dealers and shoplifters and leave it at that.

    Nobody ever asked why the criminals chose a life of crime.

    Nobody goes after the employers that are paying slave wages, training employees how to sign up for welfare, or getting their employees to work off the clock.

    The welfare one especially. People get mad at welfare recipients and not the people that put them in that position. Welfare is subsidizing the Walton’s more than anything. They could afford to pay their employees a living wage, but why would they when they can pay the minimum and working-class taxpayers can pay for the rest. Dumbass redcaps should be shunning Walmart, not sucking its proverbial dick.








  • I honest to fucking God don’t understand how cybersec is so fucking bad that there are so many damn data breaches that I lost count

    Really? It’s hard to understand?

    Dude it’s a fucking arms race between cyber security teams and attackers.

    And there’s more money in attacking than there is in defending. Defending is an expense. Attacking is almost entirely profit

    And some attackers are backed by nation-states.

    Attackers only have to get through once. Defense has to work 100% of the time.









  • We’ve had two kids.

    The first one was in a major birthing hospital, huge building that pretty much did only maternal/ob&gyn/neonatal.

    The second one was a small suburban network hospital.

    Without a doubt, hands down, no questions, even if we were in the parking lot of the other when she went into labor…we would choose the second one.

    The first one literally treated us like we were buying a car. Just, constantly upselling us everywhere. Talked her into an unnecessary C-section because he had a large head and shoulders. Treated us like bad parents when she struggled with breastfeeding (seriously, the breast-is-best folks, and the LLL, can all get fucked).

    The second one…the kid was trending larger and they were incredibly supportive of a VBAC. Which went very well.

    All this to say…I really do not get surprised when people get skeptical of the medical industrial complex. In this particular instance, they did it to themselves. And of course that has rippling effects in other healthcare (i.e. vaccination).

    Bonus story, A year or so after the birth of our second, my wife met a woman with two little kids at a COVID playgroup (like, an outdoor playgroup during COVID…not like a pox party), the same age as ours.

    Over time they (and our kids) became best friends. We come to realize and piece stories together…she was one of the overnight maternity nurses taking care of us with our second.