• jjjalljs@ttrpg.network
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    Premature ejaculation is pretty common. I don’t have stats on how common on hand.

    I searched and found one plausible looking site that said

    The study collected data from 491 men, as some were excluded for not using the stopwatch or providing incomplete information. A total of 4,000 sexual events were timed, with a mean frequency of eight events per couple over the four weeks. The results showed that the average time from penetration to ejaculation was 5.4 minutes, with a wide range from 0.55 to 44.1 minutes.

    https://www.psypost.org/average-sex-time-psychology-research/

    There’s probably more data out there if you want to go down this tangent hole.

    The other part is that some men don’t do foreplay or oral or anything else, and that also makes them bad partners. Like, if you stick it in and cum after a dozen thrusts then go to sleep, you’re probably not making your partner happy, and it’s probably not a good sex tape either.

    • peoplebeproblems@midwest.social
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      Yeah, it’s definitely gotta be my meds prolonging it then, because if the max was 44.1 minutes and it’s not uncommon for me to go 45-60 that’s definitely an outlier.

      • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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        You super slow or something? I can go quite a while if I keep things real slow, but if I’m pounding away, it can be pretty short. My SO likes the latter, so going any more than a few minutes would leave me physically exhausted.

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          I don’t know about the person you’re responding to, but I have some kind of condition where I can hardly get off with penetration. And that is not a brag. It fucking sucks.