• Moneo@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    Being selfish is hetero normative? I’m probably being defensive but this feels like a weird statement to make.

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      5 months ago

      It’s societally normative, as is heterosexuality. Correlative, not causative.

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          5 months ago

          If your jokes made around stereotypes in queer communities are offending people the jokes are probably just veiled insults. You can do things, you just need to be at least a little versed in the community and understand how to make respectful jokes instead of demeaning ones.

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            5 months ago

            Or some queer people are too sensitive. Some people live to get offended, they choose to get offended about damn near everything everyone says.

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              5 months ago

              Yeah it’s weird how people holding bigoted views are also often easily offended. People are people ig…

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          5 months ago

          As long as they stereotyping gayness and they are gay it kinda seems ok. Laughing about your self is okay i think