• Nythos@sh.itjust.works
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      9 months ago

      Simply asking someone for their number is not harassment.

      Repeatedly asking for someone’s number after being told no is.

      There isn’t any nuance to this situation.

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        9 months ago

        Telling someone they’re beautiful when they think you’re gross is creepy/harassment.

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          9 months ago

          “when they think you’re gross”

          How can I know if someone thinks I’m gross if I haven’t spoken to them yet? I should just assume I’m gross, always?

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            9 months ago

            That’s the fun part, you can’t. Don’t assume they think you’re gross, but do remember that you don’t know what they think.

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              9 months ago

              But if I tell them they’re beautiful and it turns out they think I’m gross I could go to prison for harassment! Am I really just supposed to roll the dice like that?

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          9 months ago

          It’s okay to talk to women if you’re a male model but stay the fuck away if you aren’t. Got it.

    • RealFknNito@lemmy.world
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      9 months ago

      I hope you just have a feminine sounding name and you’re not a real life woman with this opinion.